Give The Gift Of Hair To Someone Suffering Hair Loss From Cancer Or Alopecia

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By Hyphenbird

You Can Give The Gift Of Hair

This Hub is dedicated to my beloved friend in England
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This Hub is dedicated to my beloved friend in England
Source: Hyphenbird

Why We Grow Long Locks

Loss of hair is a traumatic occurrence for anyone, male or female. Hair loss is caused by several factors which are mainly Alopecia and Cancer. More than five million people in the United States and one and a half million in Great Britain alone are living with the pain of Alopecia.

Alopecia is the common medical term for abnormal or excessive hair loss. Alopecia comes in many forms and can cause a total or partial loss of hair, temporary or permanent. It creates feeling of loss, shame unattractiveness, embarrassment and other emotions in the sufferer. Often the person withdraws and becomes isolated and is cut off from friends, family and social circles.

Alopecia is a broad term description and does not refer to one specific form of hair loss. Alopecia is caused by many conditions. Some are hereditary while others are brought on by environmental factors, drugs, hormones, cancer treatments and other causes.

The most common type of hair loss we see is Male or Female Pattern Baldness Alopecia. However hundreds of diseases have hair loss as symptoms and side effects of drug treatments. Many people have hair loss as a result of chemical processes applied to their hair. These include bleach, permanent wave and relaxer treatments, some of which contain lye and can cause scarring alopecia.

Cancer treatments for children and adults often results in hair loss and account for the second greatest need for hair replacement. Chemotherapy and radiation treatments target cancer cells and other fast growing cells including hair roots. Loss may include the head, eyelashes, eyebrows, arms and other parts of the body. This is traumatic for the person who wakes up to discover a clump of hair on his or her pillow. Imagine the child whose hair remains in the comb and the mother holding the comb. Their reaction must be of stunned disbelief.

Other causes of hair loss:

  • Ectodermal Dysplasia-A disorder that affects the formation of the ectoderm. Extremely sparse hair can be a result of ectoderm abnormality.
  • Loose Anagen Syndrome-An abnormality where hair is thin and normally does not grow beyond the nape of the neck.
  • Trichotillomania-Compulsive and repetitive hair pulling.
  • Telogen Effluvium-Diffuse but excessive shedding related to sudden stress.
  • Trauma-burns, accidents, dog attacks, etc.

Many jokes and cartoons have been made popular by picturing bald men. There is nothing funny about it and not only men are affected. Women make up forty percent of hair loss sufferers. Loss of self esteem in women with Alopecia can be devastating and has been documented as leading to suicide in several cases. The psychological damage and pain caused by hair loss and feeling unattractive can take an emotional toll that directly affects physical health. Women have historically considered their hair a “crowning glory” and entire industries have been birthed from this love of hair. It is just more accepted in society for men to have full or partial hair loss than women.

Children suffer greatly from hair loss which can result from cancer treatments, alopecia conditions or environmental factors. They are stared at, become the object teasing and barbs, get sunburn on their head, and a myriad of other embarrassments. Three percent of all pediatrician visits are because of hair loss.

We can all help relieve the suffering in a way that costs nothing and is easy and fun. Grow your hair long! It is that easy. Many organizations exist that collect and make wigs and hairpieces for hair loss sufferers. Once the hair has been grown and one is ready to donate the process is very easy to arrange. Select the agency trusted with your donation. Locks Of Love may be the most well known but is certainly not the only one. Many are easily found on the internet through a quick Google search. Read the Frequently Asked Questions for each organization as they all have slightly different criteria. To get you started here is a short list of contacts:

· Locks Of Love

· Wigs For Kids

· The Children’s Alopecia Project

· The Corinne Fund at World Of Wigs(accepts grey hair)

· Wigfund

· Pantene Beautiful Lengths

· Cancer Care

· The American Hair Loss Association

· Pantene Beautiful Lengths

· Angel Hair For Kids

· The American Cancer Society

Most require the hair be at least ten inches long and be in a natural state-free of chemical processing. Up to two inches of length is lost during processing, which leaves about eight inches of hair, approximately chin length. Many recipients are little girls who love long hair. So the longer the locks donated, the better.

It is suggested that the hair be cut by a professional but it is not required. They just know how to cut better!

· Hair must be required length of 10-12 inches-see individual requirements

· Clean and dry

· Not chemically treated, temporary washout color is acceptable

· Part hair in center of the head; pull over each ear, then part front and back of ear into ponytails. The more ponytails, the less hair is lost

· Rubber band or tie hair into 4-6 sections tightly, loose hair cannot be used

· Cut hair above band

· Place in a plastic bag and seal

· Mail in a sealed envelope to the organization of choice

Anyone can grow his or her hair and donate it to a person who has hair loss. My eight year old son is currently growing his for this reason. Once you donate, you have just given hope, self esteem, validation and compassion to a person who is struggling with the stigma and uncomfortable loss of life quality life due to hair loss. It really is easy and rewarding to help.

Good growing and know you are blessed to be a blessing!

Growing Locks Out Of Love

Source: Hyphenbird

Matters Of Interest

 Some people donating are concerned their hair may not get to be used for hair loss recipients. Most organizations sell hair they cannot use to raise money for offsetting overhead costs. Read the FAQ s for each organization to learn their policy on this. Also, Locks Of Love gives hair prosthetics free of charge or based on a sliding scale. Here is a link to their application.

http://www.locksoflove.org/HairPieceApplication.pdf

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Comments

WillStarr profile image

WillStarr Level 8 Commenter 13 months ago

Use caution.

Ask whether your gift of hair might be sold for cash. My wife and daughter learned later that their hair donations were being sold as surplus!

http://badhairday.typepad.com/bad_hair_day/2006/07

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Hyphenbird Hub Author 13 months ago

Most if not all of the organizations sell hair that they cannot use to offset their overhead costs. For example, Lock Of Love makes hair for children so they cannot use grey hair. That might have been the issuse with your wife's hair, your daughter of course I have no idea. Here are some FAQ from the Locks Of Love website and I am adding a link to the application in the Hub.

1. Q. Does Locks of Love sell hair? A. Hair that is short, gray, or otherwise unusable will be sold to help offset manufacturing costs.

2. Q. Can I donate gray hair?

A. Yes, we can accept donations of gray hair. Because we only provide hairpieces to children, we cannot use this hair in a hairpiece but will sell it to offset our manufacturing costs.

. What do the children pay for these hairpieces?

A. We provide hairpieces and repairs free of charge or on a sliding scale based on the financial need of those responsible for the children.

Thanks for your concern WillStarr. We appreciate you watching out for us.

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Sunnie Day Level 8 Commenter 13 months ago

A beautiful gift that one could give. Thank you for sharing and the reminder.

God Bless,

Sunnie

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Hyphenbird Hub Author 13 months ago

My pleasure Sunnie. I was reminded of the pain one goes through when losing her hair when it happened to a friend. Then I thought to share with others how easy it is to help.

Thanks for the visit and the kind words.

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Ken Barton 13 months ago

One of my nieces has a hair loss issue that they treat with an immune suppressor, because her immune system is so strong it recognizes her hair as a foreign body, and makes it fall out. Needless to say though, she almost never gets sick. PTL

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Dave Mathews Level 7 Commenter 13 months ago

Hyphenbird: my darling wife is beginning to suffer from pattern baldness. I'm beginning to wonder though if it may not be caused by the harsh winters we face as she keeps her head smoothered in thick hoods on her coats as she ventures out.

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marcoujor Level 8 Commenter 13 months ago

Hyphenbird~~ What a detailed and inspiring piece of work about a subject so close to many of us... Voted UP & BEAUTIFUL, just like you...!

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Bumpsysmum 13 months ago

Hyphenbird, you absolute sweetie!

What a fantastic way to help people. As you know I have lost all my hair through cancer treatment and I would be lost without my wig.

This is a brilliant hub and thank you for your support and this excellent information.

I will mention this to my friends and see if I can persuade some to donate! :-)

Teylina 13 months ago

Oh, Will, how horrible to find you've been tricked that way! I have a very good friend who donated, and I can't imagine her reaction if it had not gone where it did. Thank you, Hyphenbird, for getting the msg out, and thank you, WillStarr, for reminding us we can be "taken."

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Simone Smith Level 8 Commenter 13 months ago

I'm so glad you wrote this Hub, Hyphenbird! I had never even heard of Alopecia before- how scary! Now I really want to help... guess I had better keep growing out my hair!

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Hyphenbird Hub Author 13 months ago

Ken Barton, I read about that condition that your niece suffers from. I kept wanting to write about the causes but had to rein myself in to focus on the gift of hair. I pray your niece finds healing and restoration. Thanks for stopping in.

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Hyphenbird Hub Author 13 months ago

Dave Mathews, you may be onto something there. Also the dryness caused by covering the head and from the cold dry air may be factors. I hope she finds relief and healing. Thanks for the visit, it is always good to see you.

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Hyphenbird Hub Author 13 months ago

Hi marcoujor, your kindness humbles me. Thank you very much.

I hope this Hub helps many to see how easily we all can help someone. You are so right. This subject is close to all our hearts and many loved ones suffer needlessly.

Thanks for the visit and votes!

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Hyphenbird Hub Author 13 months ago

Bumpsysmum-Surprise! My prayer is that this information will let people know how esily they can help. You and your poem were my inspiration. Though we have never met, you are my friend and I look for ways to help relieve your pain and to bring you some joy.

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Hyphenbird Hub Author 13 months ago

Teylina, it truly is my honor to publish this Hub. And you are so sweet in your caring for our own dear Will and his girls. It must have been a painful disappointment and the organization should have been more open and truthful.

Most are ethical and operate in integrity, thank God.

And thank you for your visit. You are always a joy here in Hyphenbird Hubland!

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Hyphenbird Hub Author 13 months ago

Simone Smith, I knew very little myself before beginning this research. Now my heart is tender toward sufferers.

Thanks for the visit and happy hair growing!

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always exploring Level 8 Commenter 13 months ago

What a wonderful gift to give. When i had my hair cut, the operator sat on the floor to make the first cut. I wore it in one braid that was down below my waist. I miss it terribly. I was 50 and the thinking was short hair should only be worn by the young. If i had it to do over, i would never have it cut. Short hair is more difficult to take care of. If i had known of this need i would have given gladly. Thank you for a really good hub.

Cheers

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Hyphenbird Hub Author 13 months ago

Hello always, good to see you here tonight. I know you must miss your hair. It is a part of us. When I cut my waist length hair it was traumatic. My hair is very curly so it felt like part of my personality went also. Are you growing your hair back?

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always exploring Level 8 Commenter 13 months ago

Yes i am, but it's difficult.If i can just get past the hair bugging the neck stage, i'll make it.

Cheers

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Sharyn's Slant Level 7 Commenter 13 months ago

Great informative article Hyphenbird. One of my sisters is a pre-school teacher and her and several of her co-workers grew their hair long for a couple years to donate to a student at their school who had cancer. I always felt that was such a wonderful gift.

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Hyphenbird Hub Author 13 months ago

Thanks Sharyn. I think your sister and her friends are heros. And I am glad you liked the Hub and found it informative. I enjoyed writing it.

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Bumpsysmum 13 months ago

Thank you friend Hyphenbird, for your constant and welcomed support :-)

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Hyphenbird Hub Author 13 months ago

Big smiles here Bumpsysmum:):):):):):):):):)

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DexisView Level 2 Commenter 13 months ago

Great hub, Hyphenbird, with a wonderful message. My sister & daughter are both hairdressers and this is a wonderful thing to do.

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Hyphenbird Hub Author 13 months ago

Dexis, thank you! It is so great to hear from a hairdresser. And thanks for the visit. I think this is a subject that needs more attention.

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RTalloni Level 8 Commenter 13 months ago

Wow. Who knew it was this easy? Not only have you explained it well, but you have provided important info, some of which donors might not think about until after the fact. Well done, and thanks. Voted up and awesome.

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Hyphenbird Hub Author 13 months ago

Thaks RTalloni. I appreciate that. My hope is this will help someone know how easily we can make a person feel better. My 8 year old boy is cutrrently growing his hair for Locks of Love.

I appreciate the visit and comments.

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cmahan Level 1 Commenter 13 months ago

I never thought about writing a hub about this! I have donated my hair every year for the last 4 to the American Cancer Society and Pantene for cancer patients. I lost both of my grandparents to cancer. Watched my best friend die from it in 3 months and countless friends diagnose & battle it. Thank you for an inspiring hub!!

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Hyphenbird Hub Author 13 months ago

cmahan, the inspiration was a fellow Hubber who lost her hair from chemo treatments. Good for you for donating yourhair. People like you are unsung heros. My sympathis to you on the loss of your family and friend. It is so hard to witness that kind of suffering.

Thanks for stopping in and reading this very important Hub. It is close to my heart.

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toknowinfo Level 3 Commenter 13 months ago

Great hub. My daughters donated their hair to locks of love. It was very gratifying for them. It feels good to be able to help others, and it is empowering for kids. Thanks for putting this hub together. Rated up and useful.

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Hyphenbird Hub Author 13 months ago

toknowinfo, thanks for the visit and letting us know about your daughters gift. I hope this Hub inspires many to help.

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cmahan Level 1 Commenter 13 months ago

I also forgot to mention, 4 years ago was when my 3 year old cousin was diagnosed with brain cancer. Prior to that the only cancer projects I was involved with was relay for life and bake sales. It was seeing that poor baby with no hair that sparked my interest in "finding something else" something more I could do. Although she has had to have countless surgeries and treatments, she is still alive and just turned 7. She has really made me look at myself and how I live my life. Here is this little girl that only knows one way of life right now and she never complains. There is nothing in this world I could complain about that would compare to what she has had to go through.

I have jotted down a few ideas for a new hub. My church is very active in Relay for Life and doing bake sales for raising money. I think all could benefit from me writing a hub as well as putting post on my writing site (selfemployedwriter.com)

I am sorry to hear of your friend. Is she in remission now?

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Hyphenbird Hub Author 13 months ago

cmaham, the children are so very strong. Their courage humbles me. I will look for your Hub about the ways you are helping. My friend is still undergoing chemo and has good days and not so good. But her spirit is so beautiful and light even when her body suffers. Thank you so much for who you are and how you stay involved.

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heather.h 6 months ago

thank you Hyphenbird for bringing the subject to the fore. An inspiring and informative piece. This is not something I had previously thought about, but I definately will now. Hugs.

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Hyphenbird Hub Author 6 months ago

Heather, my little boy is growing his hair for someone who has lost theirs. That little eight year old has been so persecuted for having long hair. It is unreal. Thank you for stopping in to read this. It is important to me that people know the need.

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heather.h 6 months ago

Hyphen, you must be so proud of your little boy. The ignorance of others cannot compete with the good deed your son is doing.He's a star.

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mollymeadows Level 5 Commenter 11 days ago

Hyph, you're a humanitarian. Up and sharing!

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Hyphenbird Hub Author 11 days ago

mollymeadows, my little boy is really the one who had the idea and suffered the teasing and all the indignities. I do believe in helping others be comfortable and comforted. Thank you very much for the visit, votes and shares.

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cmahan Level 1 Commenter 10 days ago

I've donated my hair for the last 4 years in honor of my cousins daughter who was diagnosed with brain cancer 4 years ago and lost her hair. I donate through the Pantene Beautiful Lengths/American Cancer Society program. I have lost both grandparents, relatives and friends to this horrible disease, so if I can give my hair to those who need it then that is what I will do since I do not have a lot of money to give.

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Hyphenbird Hub Author 9 days ago

cmahan, I believe doing this is a great service and ministry. I commend you highly for your dedication. I wish more people thought of this when they cut their long hair. I tried to get my son's cub scout troop involved but the parents were not on board. My boy intends to start growing his again in early fall. I love his long hair anyway. Thanks for stopping by.

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